If Santa Ignored You

Let’s talk Santa!

There’s a good chance the 6-year-old and the 4-year-old little girls in our adopted family believe in and love Santa Claus. But have they ever believed he loves them back?

Maybe they think they just weren’t well-behaved enough to get the toys they want. Maybe they think Santa just doesn’t care about poor children. Maybe they don’t even believe in Santa – maybe they had to be told at a very young age that he didn’t exist so they knew why they weren’t getting presents from the North Pole like the other kids in school. We don’t know and we never will.

But we do know Santa won’t ignore them this year. All because you guys are doing a truly amazing thing.

I’ll be honest, with my surgery and subsequent month-long illness resulting in the need to shorten our drive this year made me think we’d have modest donation total. Not due to a lack of generosity, but simply a lack of time to get the word out. I have never been more pleased to be mistaken.

As of this moment, we are standing at $5,4508.9 donated thus far. Which I’ve had to update twice while writing this, btw. Last year the total donated was $7,351.77. (The odd amounts reflect PayPal fees.)

So with a couple more days to go, we are shy of last year’s total by less than $1,900. That’s INSANE. Insane in the very best way imaginable, but still insane.

I was literally in tears today. Not only will we make Christmas amazing for our family, we’re going to get to donate a bunch of things to the general holiday collection – focusing on the mothers who have fled a domestically or sexually violent environment, as well as their older children (who never get as many donations in toy drives – everyone has more fun shopping for the little ones.)

The coordinator I spoke with today, who has been my contact this year and last, said the adopted families have often never had the joy of opening presents together on Christmas morning. Many of them have sought shelter with nothing but the clothes on their backs. They are in a time of emotional and physical upheaval and transition, and providing Christmas for them is most often a pure infusion of joy into an otherwise stressful, cheerless time.

We are so incredibly grateful to have such generous, fabulous, loyal friends, fans, and followers out there. This – this charity drive – this is Christmas.

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Charity Drive Kickoff 2016

Welcome to the 5th Annual Spiral Seductions Charity Event!

Life was a little complicated this year, so in order to still hold the charity drive, we’ve had to shorten and streamline this year’s festivities. We hope you’ll still dig deep and do us proud!

(Newcomers, the next paragraph is for you… Everyone else can skip down one.)

Every year, we host a charity event here on Spiral Seductions. We accept donations and we open up our Limited Edition Store. At the holidays, we support survivors of domestic and sexual violence. These are mostly women, and many of them have children. Local organizations dedicated to helping these families put out a call this time of year, asking people to help provide gifts so the moms and kiddos in their shelters and safe houses can celebrate Christmas. We answer that call, and we ask for your help to do it.

This year, because the drive has to be short and sweet (DEC 3rd – DEC 9th), we have focused our goal not on a specific amount donated, but on a specific family. We have “adopted” a mother in a shelter who took her three young daughters and fled an abusive situation. Their advocate has sent me their Christmas wishlists – each family member was asked to list 4-5 things they would love to get.

Let’s make Christmas kick ASS for them this year!

How to Donate

PayPal (We ask you to go to our non-erotic sister site, Somewhere Downtown, because we can’t have PayPal links on an adult site.)
Amazon e-giftcard (MUST be sent to emberandether(at)gmail(dot)com in US dollars)

UPDATE: THE DRIVE IS OVER, LINKS ARE GONE, NO FURTHER DONATIONS CAN BE ACCEPTED. Thank you for an amazing charity event this year!!!

(The first round of file download links will be sent late tonight or early tomorrow morning, depending how late Amazon wants to deliver my emergency order of cables. My new file this year, Ruby Red, won’t have a sample or graphics until that happens either!)

How to Beg Like a Domme and How to Be a Painting


Here’s an audio blog about being dominant while begging to give a blow job, inspired by talking to someone on Twitter and my kickass fantasies.

I didn’t bother to write this one out because I’m tired from not sleeping. So I just rambled for 15 minutes or so. And didn’t edit. ENJOY!

Also, I promised someone my “Ember as a Painting” image I tweeted about the other day, so I figured you all can enjoy this while you listen.

It amuses me to be a painting. I amuse myself. APPRECIATE ME LIKE THE WORK OF ART I AM! (Ha. See? Amused!)


(Click if for a bigger version if you like.)

Holy hell, I’m exhausted. And I have to turn off the computer now – storms are getting ugly here tonight and the power likes to surge. Grrrr… At least I still have my phone and can still tweet.

(If all of this doesn’t inspire you to follow me on Twitter, just light yourself the fuck on fire.)

The One Where Ember Gets Put Under

Sorry, hypno-fans… I don’t mean “put under” like that. But I got your attention, didn’t I? 😛

I just want to let you know, with as much advance notice as I can give, that I will be taking a chunk of time off toward the end of October. Not my normal “vacation where I still end up doing stuff” kind of time off, but real time off.

Part of the reason for my recent trip up north was that I had an appointment scheduled with a surgeon in New York. Yes, that’s a long way to go for doctor, but he is world-class in his specialty. And if you know me, you know I only want the best!

Anyway, he accepted me as a patient, and on Friday I got the call – he’s scheduled me for surgery at the end of October. I couldn’t be happier or in more skilled hands, but it will be an extensive procedure (several operations combined, 6 hours on the table) with a lengthy recovery (8 weeks before I can resume all my normal activities – though only 2 weeks before I can fly, so my ass is still going to CA for Thanksgiving, woo!)

While I think it’s fairly obvious given the timetable, I want to be absolutely clear – THIS IS NOT EMERGENCY SURGERY. It’s necessary, but I’m not about to keel over.

Anyway, this is a huge relief for me – I’ve had this appointment for a long time, and I’ve been really preoccupied wondering if this rock-star surgeon would accept me as his patient.

There will be implications for things like suspending requests for custom work and possibly the charity drive this year, but I’ll get to all that in due time. Right now, it’s just a heads up and a little happy-dance from me! 🙂


Lucky boys! I’m offering a recent custom session for personalization. 🙂

It’s called Sleazy A (because that delights me to NO end) and it’s pure sexy hypnofantasy awesomeness.

IMPORTANT NOTE: I don’t see a way to make this file strike the same tone without the listener’s name in it. So as of now, I have no plans to create a general-release version of this file. Things like “boy” and “pet” and “slut” and all that just don’t work. Unless I’m struck with inspiration before I record, this file will never appear in my public catalog.

[EDIT 7/23 – Yep, decision made. This will NEVER be a free file. Personalized copies are the only ones that will ever exist.]

You’re a professor with a well-hidden kinky-sub side. But one small slip, one momentary lapse in judgment, and that’s all it takes for a devious student (me!) to figure out your secret – and how to exploit it. With a late-night office visit (accompanied by one of her friends) she backs you into a corner. Or, well, your desk.

For her own enjoyment and entertainment, she’s going to use you and tease you and take full advantage of your slutty body. Not just tonight, but whenever she wants. Because you’re trapped, you’re hers now, and your career is on the line – what choice do you have? You’re going to be very obedient and – of course – you’re going to give her an A in your course. 😉 And just to be completely sure you never try to back out, her friend will be taking plenty of pictures of you as a tied-up, hard, horny whore. Blackmail has never been this hot!

Kinky Content: (This one is all hypnoFANTASY so nothing, including the blackmail, is actually happening to you or in your real life!) D/s, teacher-student, blackmail, light humiliation, teasing, bondage, blindfold, ball gag, anal play, strap-on anal sex, tease & denial, handjob, nipple clamps, very light CBT
  • ~45 min
  • $75
  • Multi-track (2nd track is the friend – talking, teasing, soft camera noises, etc.)
  • YOUR NAME used 10 times in the main vocal, probably more
  • Orders close by July 27th, or when I hit a max # – so likely BEFORE the 27th
  • File delivered on August 3rd
It means different things for different dommes. For me, it means at the time of recording a file I will use your name in 10+ lines of the script. There is no dubbing in (that just never sounds good). This ALSO means there is NO chance to get a personalized copy after I’ve done the recording!

Be aware that a personalized session is NOT a custom session. You have no input regarding content. If you’re looking for a session with custom content, click here!

If you want to order a copy, simply fill out the form below and I will respond with payment instructions. Double-check that your email is correct!


Please Note:

I’m giving estimates on the file length and number of times I’m going to say your name because, while the script is already written, it’s an hour-long custom which I will be trimming down to 45 minutes. So that’s why I can’t be precise on length or name-count.

I may opt, while trimming, to spare as much of the sexy content as possible in favor of trimming the induction. This may mean I utilize my instant-induction Drop Like a Rock trigger. If you find that trigger troublesome, I advise against ordering this file. If you have never trained with it, pick up a free copy of Drop Like a Rock by clicking the link above!

Oh, and this is not a dual-domme file! I voice both students, although with slight pitch change to make the “friend” sound distinct. 🙂