Hypnosis, Limits & Bliss

I got this comment in reference to my watersports (specifically piss drinking) file, Swallow.

“If You have taken over Your subs mind and totally mind fucked him wouldn’t it be possible to make him believe that this is what he really wants and this is the ultimate act of submission which brings him to the highest state of arousal? You could make him love this act, to beg for it, make this act necessary to achieve orgasm. Totally dependent on You. Totally addicted to You. Absolute mindless submission. The combination of Your sweet young voice and your brutal honesty is priceless.”

I love this comment.

So, is it possible to warp a man’s mind to the point where he begs for use as a human toilet, feels it is the ultimate act of his submission bar none, and can’t achieve orgasm without being pissed on or in, like a good little service slut?

Well…

Of course it is!

Let me back up, though. Because one beautiful thing about submission and hypnosis is you can’t hypnotize someone into doing/liking something he truly doesn’t want to. You can’t hypnotize someone into punching a child, stopping breathing, jumping off a bridge, or shooting his best friend, can you? Thankfully, of course you can’t. If hypnosis worked like that, if it were magic, the world would be a very different and very scary place.

But if that’s the case, then how can I say that I can warp a mind so completely?

Because hypnosis grows and alters associations between things already present in the mind. It adds light and shadow to illuminate or mask existing structures. It shifts the moving pieces, digs up old secrets, and buries its own treasure.

The more skilled the hypnotist, the more dramatic the effects. But the raw materials were always present. Nothing was conjured out of thin air.

It’s important to note that even though you can’t make someone do something he or she TRULY doesn’t want to do… Hypnotists can do damage. Because when I say the raw materials are always present, I’m saying hypnotists are like artists. But the corollary is not that subjects are blank canvases. It’s that they are palettes of paint. If you don’t come to me with white in your palette, I can never make it. But if you come with blue and yellow, I can make shades of green. If you tell me you don’t want green in the artwork I create inside your mind, I won’t make or use it. Not because I can’t, but because I choose to respect your limits.

Over time, as trust is established, you may decide to retract that. You may say, “Mix whatever you want, Mistress, I am yours to play with,” because the thrill of giving me total access to your palette will make your cock hard, mind melt, and heart race like nothing else in your life. But I still won’t be able to paint with pure white. It’s not there and I can’t make it.

All of that is a fancy way of saying if something is truly completely unacceptable to you, you cannot be made to do it. No matter who the hypnotist is, she cannot make you do it. Period. But a skilled hypnotist can pervert things already inside your mind to the point where you no longer recognize them as part of yourself, especially if she doesn’t respect your limits. So be mindful of who you let inside.

But don’t be fearful! Feel free to try new things. Because no single file, listened to one time, is going to radically alter the landscape of your subconscious. If you’ve given in to a Mistress, you trust her, and she presents something new, it can feel like your mentality was altered profoundly and rapidly. But your own safeguards were still in place, I promise. You just didn’t happen to have any moral or personal objection to the subject matter and because of your rapport with the hypnotist, your mind fast-tracked the new idea.

When you try something new, you will be able to make a decision, as the primary guardian of your own mentality and well-being, if it’s something or someone you want to listen to again. If you do a little exploring, you might be surprised what subjects touch you, move you, and take you deeper into blissful, complete submission to your Mistress.

You might also be surprised to learn what dark, sexy, taboo desires are already lurking inside your filthy little mind, waiting for me to cast a little light on them… *grins*

Ember

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Give, Don’t Take

I tweeted this a few days ago:

I got a couple Curious Cats which boiled down to this:

So what type of rules were you thinking of?

I’m a sub of yours and afraid. If it’s just assholes who send dick picks and demand nudes than I can totally see that.

First of all, I never mentioned any rules. I’m not making rules for dudes. That’s… Well, that’s the opposite of what I want to do. If anything, I want to pay less attention to men.

My reply was that it’s simple – give, don’t take.

I’m going to use one of my wonderful slaves as an example. Here’s how this (silly little!) slave communicates with me.

He ONLY speaks to me when he has a gift and/or tribute to offer. The picture above is the past 10 days. He’s been a bit chatty, as you can see! When he wants to speak to me, he sends a giftcard of at least $25 (oh, and most of the giftcard notes include the order number of a physical gift he has purchased as well!). I reply – genuinely, with excitement. If he wants to say something back? Another giftcard.

He simply GIVES. He never TAKES. He understands (and is fulfilled by the fact) that he will not be catered to—at all, ever.

That right there is a very good boy. If I get a notification from him? Automatic smile. Automatic delight. He brings nothing but light into my life and he takes nothing from me in return. He would continue to give if I ignored him entirely. THAT IS THE DEFINITION OF TRUE WORSHIP.

This sort of attitude is why he hears from me all the time. I once even made him a custom session that he never commissioned, just because I WANTED to. (He might be getting another in the next couple months too. 😏)

So my tweet was about how I am empowering myself to focus my attention on men who live for my pleasure in this way because… simply put… I don’t have to do anything else. I don’t have to make any money here; this isn’t my job. So unlike other ladies (and myself, when this was my profession) I don’t have to cater to men who are anything less than truly selfless slaves.

I am free. Free to be a wicked, impetuous, selfish, cruel, hedonistic goddess. Free to be addicted to my own pleasure, and absolutely indifferent to the needs and wants of men.

So that’s what I meant – give, don’t take – or else you bring nothing to the table that I want to devour.

Lastly, not everyone I engage with has to be my slave, of course! I chat now and again with hypno-subs, engage with a lot on Twitter. I have a whole host of customers over on my other site who are amazing and deeply valued. Plenty of friends and fans say hello, dote on me with a gift now and then, enjoy my work,  etc. ALL of these things are without the Mistress/slave relationship—and they are all awesome! This “give don’t take” musing is solely about those who seek to belong to me as devoted subs/slaves. I’m not doing this for profit anymore, so my tolerance for selfishness can no longer be rented.

(And with impeccable timing, my silly little slave just sent another giftcard. I’m going to go redeem it and tell him to come see how I’ve shown him off here, lol!) 

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