Hypnosis, Limits & Bliss

I got this comment in reference to my watersports (specifically piss drinking) file, Swallow.

“If You have taken over Your subs mind and totally mind fucked him wouldn’t it be possible to make him believe that this is what he really wants and this is the ultimate act of submission which brings him to the highest state of arousal? You could make him love this act, to beg for it, make this act necessary to achieve orgasm. Totally dependent on You. Totally addicted to You. Absolute mindless submission. The combination of Your sweet young voice and your brutal honesty is priceless.”

I love this comment.

So, is it possible to warp a man’s mind to the point where he begs for use as a human toilet, feels it is the ultimate act of his submission bar none, and can’t achieve orgasm without being pissed on or in, like a good little service slut?

Well…

Of course it is!

Let me back up, though. Because one beautiful thing about submission and hypnosis is you can’t hypnotize someone into doing/liking something he truly doesn’t want to. You can’t hypnotize someone into punching a child, stopping breathing, jumping off a bridge, or shooting his best friend, can you? Thankfully, of course you can’t. If hypnosis worked like that, if it were magic, the world would be a very different and very scary place.

But if that’s the case, then how can I say that I can warp a mind so completely?

Because hypnosis grows and alters associations between things already present in the mind. It adds light and shadow to illuminate or mask existing structures. It shifts the moving pieces, digs up old secrets, and buries its own treasure.

The more skilled the hypnotist, the more dramatic the effects. But the raw materials were always present. Nothing was conjured out of thin air.

It’s important to note that even though you can’t make someone do something he or she TRULY doesn’t want to do… Hypnotists can do damage. Because when I say the raw materials are always present, I’m saying hypnotists are like artists. But the corollary is not that subjects are blank canvases. It’s that they are palettes of paint. If you don’t come to me with white in your palette, I can never make it. But if you come with blue and yellow, I can make shades of green. If you tell me you don’t want green in the artwork I create inside your mind, I won’t make or use it. Not because I can’t, but because I choose to respect your limits.

Over time, as trust is established, you may decide to retract that. You may say, “Mix whatever you want, Mistress, I am yours to play with,” because the thrill of giving me total access to your palette will make your cock hard, mind melt, and heart race like nothing else in your life. But I still won’t be able to paint with pure white. It’s not there and I can’t make it.

All of that is a fancy way of saying if something is truly completely unacceptable to you, you cannot be made to do it. No matter who the hypnotist is, she cannot make you do it. Period. But a skilled hypnotist can pervert things already inside your mind to the point where you no longer recognize them as part of yourself, especially if she doesn’t respect your limits. So be mindful of who you let inside.

But don’t be fearful! Feel free to try new things. Because no single file, listened to one time, is going to radically alter the landscape of your subconscious. If you’ve given in to a Mistress, you trust her, and she presents something new, it can feel like your mentality was altered profoundly and rapidly. But your own safeguards were still in place, I promise. You just didn’t happen to have any moral or personal objection to the subject matter and because of your rapport with the hypnotist, your mind fast-tracked the new idea.

When you try something new, you will be able to make a decision, as the primary guardian of your own mentality and well-being, if it’s something or someone you want to listen to again. If you do a little exploring, you might be surprised what subjects touch you, move you, and take you deeper into blissful, complete submission to your Mistress.

You might also be surprised to learn what dark, sexy, taboo desires are already lurking inside your filthy little mind, waiting for me to cast a little light on them… *grins*

Ember

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Christmas, Charity, and Forty Large

A lot of little lights will be brighter this year, because of YOU.

In 2012, on a whim, mere months after I entered the scene I decided to fill my wishlist with toys and asked you to buy them for charity. I gave out 3 loops as thank-you gifts (they are not offered in the Limited Edition Store so if you have them, you are an OG hypnofan of mine!)

That year, $677 worth of toys were bought. I donated them to an organization in MA which supports survivors of domestic and sexual violence.

I had long since lost touch with the truest magic of Christmas, but being able to give these toys to kiddos who were having a really rough Christmas absolutely made my year. And oh boy—I was hooked!

The annual Spiral Seductions charity drive has grown wildly since then. This year, we have files from five different Dommes and guess what?

Adding up all the years, we have crossed over the “$40,000 raised” mark.

This year’s drive will end tomorrow, December 1st, at 11:59pm EST.

(Realistically, I will probably get home from the hospital and crash at like 10pm and not take the drive stuff down until the following morning so people could donate overnight, but I’m only guaranteeing I will leave the donation pages up through 11:59pm.)

Please, please, keep the donations coming! Tell your friends! This is the LAST CHANCE to get anything from the Limited Edition Store for the next 355-ish days!

It’s also your last chance to donate to an amazing cause. We Dommes don’t earn a single cent from these files – it is a labor of love from start to finish. 100% of proceeds go directly to buying gifts for the organization which helps survivors of domestic and sexual violence.

Btw, while most of you haven’t been embittered by life (and have paid attention to all the donation receipts and pictures of packed cars heading for donation that I’ve posted over the years), I can appreciate some healthy skepticism. So for anyone wondering, the reason I say “proceeds” rather than “donations” is that we lose money to processing fees. It’s about 3.5%, but varies a few tenths of a percent each year depending on how many Amazon donations come through since those don’t lose anything.

So “100% of proceeds” means “100% of money that hits my account,” which is $7,554.14 of the $7,819.80 donated as of writing this post.

I also end up having to rent a car and buy gas or (like this year) hiring my handyman to do the 8-hour round-trip drive, so actually this drive ends up costing me money. (It’s so worth it. This is my favorite time of year.)

Thank you to everyone who has taken part, and A HUGE “Thanks, I hate you, but seriously THANKS” to all you last-minute donors who will make tomorrow special. I know you’re out there, testing my nerves, stressing me out, making me wonder what the final total will actually BE. But you’re also the ones who make the last day magical. Pretty please do that again this year!!

I’ll try to update a couple times if I can during the day tomorrow, but I’ll be pretty busy trying not to kill any patients.

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