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Get to Know Me…


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I’m Ember. Welcome to my world.

I’m a 35-year-old lifestyle domme and I haven’t had a vanilla relationship since my teens. I have many fetishes and I adore BDSM. I believe hypnotizing a man can be everything from debauchery to high art – and I have loved everything about it for nearly ten years.

No matter the level of control you desire, I know the pleasure that can be found when you indulge in power exchange. I provide dozens of free sessions – I love free porn and I love providing it too! But I also know how fun, intense, rewarding, and blissful one-on-one D/s experiences can be. I know exactly what makes a slave tick, and I use that to my advantage to bring him totally under my control. And that’s only the beginning.

Breathe in my Erotic Ether, and let’s play.


Show me your appreciation…


Whether it’s five dollars or five hundred, tribute is always the MOST appreciated and versatile way to thank me and SERVE me. I strive to make sure my followers have fun, sexy, quality hypnosis to indulge their kinks, no matter what they can afford. If you tribute, it’s best to DM me through twitter or contact me (form below) to let me know so I can thank you!

I can make free content because of those who tribute CONSISTENTLY!

GiftRocket (to emberandether[at]gmail[dot]com)
PayPal (to emberandether[at]gmail[dot]com)
Vemno (get the smartphone app, send to @ember)

You can also tribute through NiteFlirt – keep in mind they keep 30% of whatever you send and make it obnoxiously hard for me to reply to tributes!

TAKE NOTE: In order to actually serve me with your money, you will need to give a lot and often. You will need to treat it like what it is – the gateway to EVERYTHING in your life. Your money controls everything from the house you live in to the clothes you wear to the food you eat. It is the ultimate power over your life. You cannot serve me in a Power Exchange scenario unless you surrender REAL amounts of money.

I love getting presents – little treats make me happy, very large impressive gifts make me horny! Explore ALL my wishlists to get a feel for what makes me tick. PLEASE NOTE: I am in school and have *no* time right now. I’m paring down my wishlists and I greatly appreciate CASH tribute over gifts (gift cards are a close second) to save me the boxes and trash and unpacking, etc. It’s a time-drain, even though I adore the gifts.

PUBLIC LISTS:
Brighten My World (main list)
Impress Me ($400 & over)
Buy for a Guy (cuck heaven)

EXCLUSIVE LIST:
Intimate & Sexxxy (NF link, $25 for access)

I also create PRIVATE WISHLISTS for the special few who want to spoil me in a very personal way.
Contact me for details using the form below.


Talk to me…


Read the FAQ before writing!

NOTE: The Contact Form is NOT a form to request a custom. Custom Session requests are closed to the public.

Recent Posts

Give, Don’t Take

I tweeted this a few days ago:

I got a couple Curious Cats which boiled down to this:

So what type of rules were you thinking of?

I’m a sub of yours and afraid. If it’s just assholes who send dick picks and demand nudes than I can totally see that.

First of all, I never mentioned any rules. I’m not making rules for dudes. That’s… Well, that’s the opposite of what I want to do. If anything, I want to pay less attention to men.

My reply was that it’s simple – give, don’t take.

I’m going to use one of my wonderful slaves as an example. Here’s how this (silly little!) slave communicates with me.

He ONLY speaks to me when he has a gift and/or tribute to offer. The picture above is the past 10 days. He’s been a bit chatty, as you can see! When he wants to speak to me, he sends a giftcard of at least $25 (oh, and most of the giftcard notes include the order number of a physical gift he has purchased as well!). I reply – genuinely, with excitement. If he wants to say something back? Another giftcard.

He simply GIVES. He never TAKES. He understands (and is fulfilled by the fact) that he will not be catered to—at all, ever.

That right there is a very good boy. If I get a notification from him? Automatic smile. Automatic delight. He brings nothing but light into my life and he takes nothing from me in return. He would continue to give if I ignored him entirely. THAT IS THE DEFINITION OF TRUE WORSHIP.

This sort of attitude is why he hears from me all the time. I once even made him a custom session that he never commissioned, just because I WANTED to. (He might be getting another in the next couple months too. 😏)

So my tweet was about how I am empowering myself to focus my attention on men who live for my pleasure in this way because… simply put… I don’t have to do anything else. I don’t have to make any money here; this isn’t my job. So unlike other ladies (and myself, when this was my profession) I don’t have to cater to men who are anything less than truly selfless slaves.

I am free. Free to be a wicked, impetuous, selfish, cruel, hedonistic goddess. Free to be addicted to my own pleasure, and absolutely indifferent to the needs and wants of men.

So that’s what I meant – give, don’t take – or else you bring nothing to the table that I want to devour.

Lastly, not everyone I engage with has to be my slave, of course! I chat now and again with hypno-subs, engage with a lot on Twitter. I have a whole host of customers over on my other site who are amazing and deeply valued. Plenty of friends and fans say hello, dote on me with a gift now and then, enjoy my work,  etc. ALL of these things are without the Mistress/slave relationship—and they are all awesome! This “give don’t take” musing is solely about those who seek to belong to me as devoted subs/slaves. I’m not doing this for profit anymore, so my tolerance for selfishness can no longer be rented.

(And with impeccable timing, my silly little slave just sent another giftcard. I’m going to go redeem it and tell him to come see how I’ve shown him off here, lol!) 

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